Things to do together with your partner

Couple things to do

I just watched Kanan Gill stand up on relationships where he says that a relationship is where two interesting people come together and become one boring person by cancelling out each other's personalities. "She likes travelling, you hate travelling, so you travel sometimes angrily".😂

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It's not necessary that your partner will like the same things as you do. So when you spend all your time in your favorite hobby, they will feel left out.

I am not saying that never try your partner's hobbies. Sometimes you try new things and suddenly you start liking them. That way a partner can actually make you a better person.

Also, doing things with another person is fun. It actually makes you do it. You don't have to like your partner's hobbies, you just need to understand that it's important to them, even if it looks silly to you.

Here's a list of all the things you can do together with you partner:

• Fight/Argue - that's something you do together too, even if it is against each other;)
• Watch movies or some series or even some cat videos.
• Long drive - car/bike.
• Trekking/hiking.
• Cooking.
• DIYs- - you can paint your house and have fun.
• Travel.
• Chores - share the burden and spend time together.
• Having dinner together every day.
• Workout or running or walking.
• Dress up and set timer on your camera and click away. Candid photography done.
• Tell stories to each other. If I find something interesting, I go all gaga about it.
• Learn new language and talk to each other in your new secret language.
• Sports or indoor games or even video games.
• Go to a concert or an event where you can have fun. Comic cons!
• DJ night at home. All you need is a rotating Disco bulb and some music.
• Make bucket lists and see what's common. Or even make a "Couple bucket list" of all the things you want to do together.
• Just have a cup of coffee together.
• Go for long walks. (This really works for us. We talk about many things)
• Visit museums or art exhibitions and pretend that you understand them all.
• Outdoor activities - zip lining, rock climbing etc
• Teach each other something.
• Solve puzzles.
• Learn something together.
• Explore your city.
• Visit spiritual centers if you are spiritual.
• Karaoke night! There are lot of apps for this. Bonus: Make your own album by singing as badly as you can.
• Go for shopping. Even grocery shopping will do!
• Go for bowling.
• Read or even take a nap.
• Talk to each other. Listen.
• Write poetry on each other. Just kidding. Just write some goofy rapping on each other. Or better turn rap to poetry.
• Discuss and plan your finances/budget. Learn together how to save and invest.
• Grow plants. Or kids. I prefer plants.
• Paint or sketch each other. Try not to draw a potato.

Phew! That's some list!

How do you spend your time with your partner? 

Are you even doing it or too caught up in your world?

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